Sylvia's World...

Jang Jang Jang!!!... heh heh.. nothing scary.. just that da shao got chickenpox.. and she was given two weeks mc to stay at home and not go around spreading her germs (but according to Dr Tan, she has already started spreading the germs last week before her outbreak of chickenpox).. so i told her that i will blog about 14 days later to which she daggar stared at me..

It all started yesterday when i received a call from eat bread saying that da shao got chickenpox.. so coincidentally i was reaching home when da shao went to the clinic.. and trust me.. you cannot find another more 38 family like mine because... other than my dad and my nephews and tfb who did not go down because my dad and tfb is not 38 and my nephews wanna watch cartoon.. ALL of us actually went down to the clinic to kaypo.. and all of us actually packed into the doctor's room when it was da shao's turn.. so the actually quite poor thing chickenpox kena turned into something quite funny because my dad actually bluff us saying that chickenpox peps cannot go out because if they do, they will be caught by the police and throw into qurantine place... So yesterday while i was excitedly talking loudly about da shao's chickenpox.. the three of them (eat bread, da shao and hmw was telling me to shh shh shh dun say so loudly!)..


So the doctor actually clarified that this is not the case and chickenpox wun be caught by police.. ahaha.. then da shao got a lot of mixed advise from alot of people because of olden days' practice mixed with current days' practice.. so she is quite poor thing when i went to visit her today.. haiz..vhat to do when you are the second oldest to kena chicken pox in my clan (my dad was the oldest and i was the trigger point because i kena first and i triggered everybody in my family except my mum because she kena before liao to get chickenpox).. Hmm.. but to sum up everything that i think is logical, i think it will be better if da shao can jie kou for the next two weeks because food this type of things hor.. better dun play play.. but then shower hor... mm.. i think can shower lah since doctor said can shower but be more careful not to 'catch wind' when you come out loh... mmm...

But hor, despite the fact that da shao is a chickenpoker hor... we still went thru a tsunami yesterday with a destructive factor of 10 on the richer scale of 1 to 10.. this is because... my dad.. told us on thursday.. that he is going to thailand.. on saturday (which is yesterday).. This news triggered a series of bu shuangness from my mum and yesterday esp was really really bad that she started experiencing happiness and sadness and anger all in a short span of fifteen min.. and it doesnt help that all of us are stuck at home because it is raining.. *gulp* so even though da shao is a chickenpoker she still need to entertain my mum and we played mahjong and my sis sat beside my bro to fang pao for my mum.. - -"'

SO to applease the empress dowager, eat bread and me.. had to step into coach... and brought a bag with our hard earn money that is stained with sweat and blood for her... as a maler day gift and birthday pressie... haiz.. sad hor.. eat until so big liao.. my most branded bag is still the guess bag which only cost like 60+ that i brought this year.. hers is about 10 time more ex than mine loh..

BTW have i also mentioned that we have invested and brought Wiiii~ set?... Yes.. me and TFB has made the second commitment to life.. that is to buy a wii set and go on a diet campaign!...

I KNOW... i am slow... the whole world have watched this movie and gave raving reviews about it but i have not watched it until yesterday... Somemore it was a 9.35 show because i was blur and mistaken Orchard for AMK hub and i cant cancel the tics as they cant refund me the money. Not that i have an issue with it, i was really grateful to them for being able to transfer my tics from Orchard to AMK at a later timing and not tell me that there is nthing that they can do.. after all if you purchased the tics, and you forgot about the timing and you arrived at the place at say half an hours later you cant go back to the counter and ask them to change the time of the tics for you right?... So i am grateful...

Anyway back to the show... i thot that it is quite a nice show... i dunno.. seems like alot of women are watching it? Maybe because the title is "He is just not that into you" so it seems like alot of women are going with their female friends to watch it (including me of course but i was forcefully dragged to watch it.. ) but i thot that it was more of like a love story than a female friend type of show.. mayb the topic is more suitable for friends to watch together given that the topic is something that people (i mean female) discuss with their friends...

Generally, i think the part on Gigi and Alex is really sweet!.. It is so sweet when he made an effort to answer her calls all the time when she is just a friend to him.. I can relate to the part where Gigi was looking for a guy and got her hope dashed when Alex rejected her... It is like.. you have exhausted all your resources looking for your other half but he is still nowhere to be seen.. even the last hope was dashed and you will have to start all over again to look for a possible person but the question is, where do you start the search from? It is like every single aspect of your life seems impossible like Gigi where she went clubbing and etc but still couldnt find anybody.. It was a horrible type of hopelessness when all your hopes are taken away from you and you really dunno where else can you look at for more chance/hopes.. because it is not like prince charming will suddenly fall down from the sky in front of you one day when you are walking on the street... I once had that type of hopelessness so i know how it feels like... but yes it was said in the film that every girl will be a man's rule but there is one that is the exception and it is that exception that the man will want to be with.. So I guess i am TFB's exception?.. haha

However, i strongly disgree with the things that Mary told Anna when Ann told her that she like Ben (the married guy) that what happens when you find your true love only when you are already married?... Yes, you may find somebody else who click with you and is like your true love when you meet the person but i strictly dont believe that the person will be your true love because if the person is your true love, you will meet at the correct place at the correct time with the correct person. It is a decision that you have to make and there are no such excuses that you meet your true love after you are married and would like to leave your wife of dunno how many million of years for somebody that you barely knew for a few months... and then you may say.. mayb the husband have know that somebody else for a few years?.. That is even worse!... How can you when you know that there is this person whom you like more than your wife exist and yet you dun do something to resolve the problem between your wife and yourselves and simply let it slide in a downwards spiral for a few years and then come to the verdict that your wife and your marriage are simply not meant to be?...

I just dont agree with the fact that Ben know that there are some problem and yet refuses to rectify the problem by communicating and Anna has to sort of make a move on him even though she knew that he is a married man... I know that it is very old minded of me to say that.. but when you make a commitment to a person obviously you have already decided to spend the rest of your life with that person.. the worst thing that you can do is to get married but still half decided on whether is the person next to you the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with. If you dont love that person, let the person go. Dont stay in a relationship because of convenience because i guess it is really painful when your partner tell you one fine day after your marriage that you are actually not the one for them.. er.. a bit hurtful right.. then you wonder what is on the person's mind when they were reciting the vows...

Anyway the above are just my point of views.. Overall i think that it is a very nice show and how they managed to show how human relationship is nowadays and how can something slide downwards in a very unintentional manner...

Go watch it if you have time... wouldnt really be a waste of money... =D